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The Unique Strengths of Single Parent Families Nowadays, it's quite common to talk about the problems of single parent families. These problems usually center on the disadvantages to children. This focus may lead some single parent to throw up their hands in despair. It's true that research shows that children in single parent families on average, tend to do less well in many ways than children in two-parent families. However, all of us know persons who grew up in single parent families who turned out fine. In addition, single parent families aren't helped to become strong by focusing only on the weaknesses and problems. Instead, to become a dynamic family, it's better that they realize and build upon their own strengths. According to Stephen Atlas, author of the book "Single Parenting", single parent families are willing to work at it and get help when they need it. There are seven benefits that can come to their children and themselves. 1 - If there was high conflict before a divorce in a two-parent family, a change to a single parent family living can bring about a reduction in tension, hostility and discord and an increase in family solidarity and consistency. When tension is high between parents on their way to divorcing, children's emotional needs are often ignored. Rules are not consistently enforced and children feel less secure. When that tension is gone, single parents can focus more on children's needs and return to greater consistency in rule enforcement. 2 - A single parent may have greater flexibility in planning with children. Single parents aren't distracted by the expectation of time demands by another parent. With fewer schedules to negotiate there may be greater flexibility to spend time with each child. 3 - Single parent families may become more interdependent working together approach to problem solving and daily living. Single parents depend more heavily on the voluntary cooperation of their children. This cooperation is encouraged by holding family meetings where children are involved directly in making decisions and problem solving. When children are involved, they are more likely to help carry out the decisions. 4 - Single parenting provides many challenges that are opportunities for growth and sharing. Single parents often need to develop new skills and obtain additional education. While it isn't easy, pursuing the task of balancing a full-time job with responsibilities for housework and parenting can help make us stronger people. 5 - Children have wider experiences because they may go between two differing spheres of influence. Each single parent family will have its own unique influence. This can be a broadening experience for children. 6 - The extended single parent community can provide support. Single parent families are not necessarily isolated or cut off from the broader community. Nor do they necessarily lack support. Groups for single parents such as Parents Without Partners can be a valuable resource for activities, sharing, personal growth, and forming new relationships. 7 - Young people may feel more needed and valued as contributing members of the household. In two-parent families, parents typically share major responsibilities. In single parent families, each child's help is needed and vital in day-to-day living. As a result, they may feel more valued.

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